Coming in the Side Door for Amazing Ancestor Finds Using Collateral Research
A few years back I was wandering a small local cemetery. It’s the final resting place for a number of my ancestors. Looking at family headstones I noticed the lone grave of a Civil War soldier, James R. Van Meter. His marker was engraved with an eagle and the inscription “Rest Soldier Thy Warfare is Ore”. His surname was one in my family tree but I knew he wasn’t a direct ancestor. He had to be a collateral relative. When I saw he was only 21 years old and died during the Civil War I decided to learn more about him. What happened to James? My thoughts jumped around with various theories. Had he been shot in battle? I wondered if he had a wife? Did he leave children? My thought was that he didn’t leave a wife and family, given his age. I’m sure he was mourned by his parents and siblings, but I’ll bet it wasn’t too many years later that his name probably wasn’t mentioned again. Not out of disrespect of course, it’s just that life goes on. Parents pass away, siblings marry and have families of their own. Brothers or uncles who died in the war […]